We have to ask for theories and help of ourselves and others to solve a problem. We are amazingly apt at accepting a solution because it never seems that perfection is either possible or practicable!
It is important however, that we have either no theory or several, to have one theory is to pretend to know! Theory or no theory, we can do a great many things gathering the data to begin to form a theory. It is most useful to know what we can do, and together. Now you begin to answer the questions as you state them to others in collaboration.
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